Make Choices That Make You Smile

Hello, dear readers! Welcome back to another week at Willing2b, where we explore the qualities that help us lead happier, more fulfilling lives. This week, we’re diving into the wonderful world of discernment. You might be wondering, “What exactly does it mean to be discerning?” Well, let’s chat about how being discerning, whether in small, everyday choices or the big decisions, can make a world of difference in our lives.

Let’s start with the little things – those daily decisions that might seem insignificant but actually hold a lot of power. Imagine you’re grabbing your morning coffee. Instead of the usual quick fix, you decide to visit that cozy local café with the barista who always remembers your name and your favorite drink. Not only do you get a delicious cup of joy, but you also start your day with a little boost of happiness.

Being discerning in these small moments means choosing things that make you smile. Whether it’s picking out a beautiful mug that brightens your morning or a fun piece of art that makes your space feel uniquely you, these little joys add up. Each thoughtful choice creates a ripple effect of positivity in your life. So, next time you’re buying something, ask yourself: Does this bring me joy? If the answer is yes, go for it!

Now, let’s talk about the bigger stuff – like our relationships. We all have those friends who lift us up, make us laugh, and support us through thick and thin. These are the relationships we treasure. But sometimes, we also find ourselves in relationships that feel more draining than uplifting.

Being discerning means recognizing when it’s time to step back from relationships that no longer serve us. It’s not always easy, but it’s so important. Think about the “time suckers” – those friends who always seem to need something from you but are never there when you need them. Or the relationships that just don’t feel good anymore. It’s okay to take a step back and focus on the people who truly add value to your life.

Remember, being discerning in your relationships isn’t about cutting people out abruptly. It’s about gently evaluating how each relationship affects you and making choices that protect your well-being and happiness.

And then there’s our work life – another big area where being discerning really pays off. It’s so easy to get comfortable in a job that’s okay but not great. We might stay because it feels safe or because we’re not sure what else is out there. But being discerning means regularly checking in with yourself to see if your job is still a good fit.

Is your current role helping you grow? Are you excited about what you do? If the answer is no, maybe it’s time to start exploring other opportunities. Look for roles that challenge you, inspire you, and align with your passions. It might feel scary to make a change, but being discerning in your career choices can lead to a much more satisfying and rewarding work life.

Being discerning is really about making mindful choices that enhance your life. It’s a journey, not a destination, and it involves a bit of soul-searching and a lot of kindness to yourself. Start by making small, joyful decisions in your daily life, be thoughtful about your relationships, and stay open to new career possibilities that excite you.

We’re here to cheer you on every step of the way. Let’s embrace the power of discernment together and create a life full of joy, fulfillment, and endless possibilities. Here’s to making choices that make you smile and being willing2b our very best selves.

Take care and stay discerning, friends!